What Did You Miss?

No new content today.  BUT…

What did you recently miss?  Perhaps you have not taken time to download, read or forward the Alive Today! manifesto?  Perhaps you simply need to do nothing and just sit there in order to consider where the road is heading?

Today I traveled more than I usually do and met with interesting people which made me think once again about what is hard work?  My son recently visited his grandparents and checked how much he has grown on the door frame – how much have you recently grown (…and I do not refer to your circumference)?

Have you spent some time on the rest of the website?  I could perhaps be of assistance as a coach or facilitator for your next team development session or helping you overcome pain and fear in order to become a better you!

No matter what you do always go from survive to alive!

What Did You Miss?

No new content today.  BUT…

What did you recently miss?  Perhaps you have not taken time to download, read or forward the Alive Today! manifesto?  Perhaps you simply need to do nothing and just sit there in order to consider where the road is heading?

Today I traveled more than I usually do and met with interesting people which made me think once again about what is hard work?  My son recently visited his grandparents and checked how much he has grown on the door frame – how much have you recently grown (…and I do not refer to your circumference)?

Have you spent some time on the rest of the website?  I could perhaps be of assistance as a coach or facilitator for your next team development session or helping you overcome pain and fear in order to become a better you!

No matter what you do always go from survive to alive!

Alive Today! – Survive to Alive Manifesto Launch

The big day is finally here!

A big thank you to friends, family and supporters who have challenged me and contributed to the launch of the manifesto.  No person, idea or movement happens in isolation and this manifesto is testament to this.

Head over to downloads and click on the manifesto image for your free copy today!

Share with friends and family and join the movement of going from survive to alive every day.

Edge Case: Nested And Mixed Lists

Nested and mixed lists are an interesting beast. It’s a corner case to make sure that

  • Lists within lists do not break the ordered list numbering order
  • Your list styles go deep enough.

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Unordered – Ordered – Unordered

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The First of Many

Welcome to the new home of Survive to Alive!  As you are probably aware I have been blogging for quite a while and this is the next step for me.  In the months to come I am going to be sharing with you, and challenging you, to truly live and not just breathe!

In this first post I would like to recap on the purpose of this blog/website which invariably means that I am going to share a little bit about my journey thus far as it motivates and informs the work I do.  So here goes…

I have always been a curious person and love to explore and learn.  I am interested in how this world works and I have always been ready to challenge the status quo in search of a world with greater meaning and purpose.  I just can’t settle for okay.

Perhaps part of the reason I am like this is because I have been privileged to be raised in three different countries as my parents showed me how far they would go in order to commit to a greater purpose.  This translated into an exciting and challenging career because everywhere I went I could not help but look at every situation with the same question: how can this be improved?  Not everyone liked this.  So originally I started to blog because I was confronted with a world that simply did but did not think that much and I felt a need to express myself.  I saw survival but could not really find people who lived!

As time went by I kept running into challenges and kept on blogging.  I started to dream of a day where I could help people that was in search of a better alternative and perhaps also create awareness among others that there is in fact a better way and this better way meant truly living.

This is not a small task and it is an ongoing journey to help people go from survive to alive as I endeavour to do the same.  Helping other people is in fact the way that I go from just surviving to truly being alive.  What makes my journey even more unique is that with the support of family, friends and a Power beyond my comprehension I have been able to go and explore so many different approaches to life and work.  It is the world of work for which I have a passion to see people freed to contribute from their deepest empathy.  I also believe that in creating a world of work like this is inextricably linked to a healthier world.

So progressively I have focused on leadership development of emerging leaders and entrepreneurs through lecturing, mentoring, coaching and public speaking.  I however neglected the writing a bit because I was kept busy but also because I have underestimated its value and importance.

So now it is time to refocus and commit my talents and abilities to writing.  I will therefore be writing one post a week, no more.  I just don’t think it is necessary to write more.  I will however also be adding additional pieces that are downloadable and later on things will get more interesting.  …More about that later. Please go ahead and follow survivetoalive.com by entering your email address on the right as indicated.  Also explore the rest of the site and keep an eye out for the launch of the Alive Today! manifesto (hint: the best way to get your download early is to follow via email subscription).

I look forward to joining you on a journey that is not merely about surviving but is about truly living!

Wisdom Journey

Every day spent in a big city makes me think about the pace of life.  What are the things I get up for in the morning?  What is the golden thread that connects everything?  I am really challenging myself to see things differently and especially see myself differently.  I need to reframe myself and my life in order to approach challenges with peace.  Part of this is also recognising the really important things that I need to be a part of and which things are distracting me.  I believe this will also bring peace.  I do not want to focus on things that seem great but that are actually distracting me.

I desire to look at life integrated and holistically and not let one part dominate the rest (as I wrote earlier this year).  More and more I am becoming aware of how important it is to take the journey inside and connect with the journey outside.  I find that if I am busy and distracted on the outside that it has a negative impact on the inside.  I need to travel the soul and travel the world in order to connect with humanity and with myself and I see this as my Journey to gather wisdom, grow in wisdom and share it with a hungry disconnected world.  It is a journey of spiritual intelligence and connectedness that taps and feeds my greatest potential and leads to being truly alive.

It is a Wisdom Journey that I am on and this is the golden thread that connects the different parts of my life.  It is my choice to see it this way and it is my choice to make a difference by being on this journey.  It is a life of beauty and simplicity; freedom and creativity.  It is about connecting with my highest values and letting my energy flowing from there.  In a way it is like being a martial artist that merely sees every challenge as an opportunity to dance – taking the perceived negative energy and translating it into beautiful positive movement (thank you Julian).

How do you see your life?  How can you reframe in order to position yourself to be truly alive?

Grit Baby, GRIT!

The last two posts looked at dreaming as well as habits.  The whole idea is that we want to make shifts in life but how?  That is why I have looked at dreaming as the source.  On the other hand it seems like connecting dreams with hard goals and driving towards them have created a world that is in danger of falling apart.
That is also why habits can serve as a method of making a shift by focusing on the moment and intrinsic value.  From here the challenge is to stick to one thing.  Identify an area of passion that can be sustained over a period of time.  It means that you have to combine perseverance with sustained passion in order to get things right.  Not just an interest or curiosity but a burning passion for something over a long period and whenever something becomes too challenging you have the ability to persevere through the difficult times.  This is what is called grit and you can watch this video to understand it better.  I guess the words of Mister Han in the latest Karate Kid rings true: “Your focus needs more focus.”

The challenge however is that you could be sticking to the wrong stuff.  Perhaps you have learned perseverance from your parents or you’re that kind of person that never gives up.  You know that you have to do this thing no matter what and no-one can talk you out of it.  But what if it is not really a passion and what you are doing is in fact leading you in the wrong direction – not grit, just perseverance.  Ever hear that old saying that you climb the corporate ladder to the top only to find out that it is leaning up against the wrong wall.

On the other hand you could be too impatient because you are over-passionate.  Perhaps you are pushing too hard to get somewhere.  This is also not grit.  It is truly a delicate yet powerful combination that can propel you forward.  It is a way that you don’t have to drive towards change but where you are internally transformed and change occurs around you.

This is truly a rare combination of sustained passion and perseverance that results in true grit.  I meet few people that display this but also find great challenges not to get distracted and rather isolate a passion.  One passion that will give my focus more focus and then… Persevere.